Just a question but what type of food have you been eating to help get fit and are you using protein shakes aswell?
just loads of veggies and salads really, and if i eat meat it’s really lean. i’ve started cooking a lot more too. usually in the morning for breakfast i make a smoothie with banana, frozen mango or blueberries, green apple, coconut water, kale, spinach and maca powder, and i’ll have some rice cakes with avocado, alfalfa and spinach. for lunch i’ve been making salads with lots of leafy greens, walnuts, steamed or grilled veg (usually sweet potato or zucchini) and i make a dressing with low fat/sugar greek yogurt. sometimes i’ll go to the pho place near my gym and get soup with chicken breast and bok choy or go to this amazing restaurant near my house for steak with steamed broccolini and beans. i always drink a LOT of water too. if i come home straight after gym i’ll have a protein shake but otherwise i don’t tend to have them. i dunno i’m not a fitness expert or in any way qualified to give advice haha but i’m just keeping it simple, fresh, and clean, with the occasional burger or pizza here and there cos lord knows i don’t wanna live a life without pizza and burgers hahaha
it’s the best feeling when someone you barely know comments on your weight loss after not seeing you for a few weeks! one of the old power lifting guys at my gym walked by and said hi to my trainer, then stopped and said to me “wow, you’ve slimmed down considerably!” it was awesome, i’ve been training my butt off and aside from when i was on holiday keeping to a mostly healthy, fresh, lean diet… the results are coming slowly and it’s still gonna be a while til i feel really good again but i’m getting there! 😎
i have no idea if i even have many female followers from melbourne on here and i realise this could attract a whole lot of creepers so i’m going to be VERY careful here, but…
my housemate is moving to perth next month and i’m going to be looking for a female to move in to my 2br modern apartment in st kilda. the location is PERFECT, it’s super close to the beach, shops & public transport, has secure undercover parking, built in robes in the bedroom. rent is $1050 per month.
obviously i’m not going to give out any further details on here but if any of you are normal, fun, not psychotic kleptomaniac or anything girls with a stable income who are looking please email me at firstname.lastname@example.org so we can discuss it further :)
Hai how is you're cat going?? that was the coolest story ever when you found him again after all this time, amazing!
freddie is doing great! yeah it was a pretty incredible story hey. he is living with the lovely lady who found him and she absolutely adores him and sends me photos of him regularly. she says i’m welcome to visit him any time i’m in adelaide too. he honestly couldn’t have picked a better house to wander into, it’s been such a perfect result :)
After reading your post about a boyfriend I think what would be perfect for you is to find someone who doesn't mind if you still strip, isn't bothered much by your random trips to LA, and is still there to do any romantic or fun type things when you feel the need. Kind of like a boyfriend, but more like a best-guy-friend, if you get my meaning.
90% of the time that kind of thing looks good on paper but isn’t sustainable. if you engage in that kind of behaviour with someone you are sexually attracted to it’s almost a guarantee that one or both of you will develop intense romantic feelings and suddenly it’s not all so easy and carefree. that kind of thing always sounds good, but realistically isn’t likely to work.
today has been pretty rad. went for a walk along the beach first thing in the morning which always puts me in a good mood, then had my first delivery from this amazing local organic/vegan/generally just very healthy food delivery service. went out for lunch with carly to discuss our DJ gig at riva NYD and had the most delicious eye fillet steak, and just got an email letting me know my application to transfer my apartments lease into my name was successful so i’m getting prepared for when emma moves out next month! and now i’m gonna play skyrim for a few hours before meeting my friend at the sea baths for a swim & sauna :)
What's the best club to work at in Melbourne? I've been thinking about flying over for a weekend. Hope you're happy and well ❤️ You're truly beautiful and an inspiration to me. You're so humble and nice.
thank you :) there’s a lot of clubs here and it depends on your work style as to which one suits you best. i love working at centrefold lounge, it’s classy and chill and mostly really busy. they don’t generally allow huge visible tattoos (i’m the exception due to my magazine stuff etc) but they’re not too strict on it, most girls who have half sleeves or something just put a bit of makeup over it. men’s gallery is our huge sister club and where the BIG money is but i can’t work there cos they have a really really strict ‘no tattoos’ policy - if you’re a gun hustler, have no tattoos or easily coverable ones and are ok with a strict dress code, go there. if you’ve come from qld and you’ve worked in clubs that allow patrons to touch you during a dance and you’re fine with that, work at kittens in south melbourne - it’s ALWAYS rammed with people every night, only stays open til 3am and the girls there make huge $$$. if you’ve got too many tattoos to cover with makeup and you don’t want to work in a touching club, bar 20 is your best option, it’s a pretty cool club but my friends who work there say it’s been pretty quiet lately
Checked your blog out pretty cool, you're very pretty and I'd approach you in a bar or wherever and ask you out. Not to be creepy or weird but I'd also take you home for a bit and end you streak of "not getting any".
no, you wouldn’t, as i have absolutely zero interest in going home for ‘a bit’ with any random guy who approaches me, it’s not like i’m sitting here desperately waiting for someone to come along and stick their penis in me
i spent all this time desperately wanting a boyfriend and then i started meeting nice guys and realised wow what the hell i actually don’t want a boyfriend cos suddenly i love stripping again and i don’t want anyone to get in the way of making money. also i’m not ready to give up random impulsive trips to LA where i get white girl wasted in gay bars and have drunk makeouts with gay guys/gogo boys/shirtless bartenders. boys and dating are just not even a blip on my radar right now!!
Hey I want to ask you a question. I'm 33 and i've always noticed that all the really stunning girls are single , I rarely go up to a stunning girl in a bar as I think I'm just going to get knocked back , is this quite common , your stunning do you find guys shy away from you because of it . I mean all of this question very respectfully. Seb
i don’t think i’m stunning by any means, but i do have a certain look (blonde hair, big boobs) that a lot of guys i guess find a bit intimidating. when i say intimidating i don’t mean that i think i’m so hot nobody would approach me, but more so that because of how i look people tend to make the assumption that i’m a stuck up bitch who thinks she’s hot. and the thing is, i’m not stuck up at all. i’m very shy and insecure and i’m not even a little bit confident around men so it’s very difficult for me to approach them cos in my head i’m like “why bother, they’d want someone skinnier, i’ll just embarrass myself, etc” sooo i stay away from them, they read into that as “she thinks she’s too good” when it’s actually the opposite and i guess that’s why i’ve been single for years and haven’t had sex in months haha :/
so last night at work i was dancing for a guy on his bachelor party, keep in mind that yeah it was a strip show but we were just laughing and being silly and it was totally just tame harmless fun. he was a really nice guy and pretty good looking etc. anyway at the end of the dance he checks his phone and sees his bride to be has sent, i am not even kidding here, 20-25 texts in a row along the lines of “i fucking hate you. go fuck yourself you fucking assshole. you and all your lying friends can get fucked, i know you’re at the strippers. so glad you chose those fucking sluts over our marriage. have fun with your whores. fuck you. don’t ever fucking talk to me again” so he walks out on his bachelor party to go sort it out with her.
now can someone please explain to me HOW batshit crazy, possessive, jealous, insecure bitches like this manage to land a really decent guy like him? i see it ALL the time and i don’t understand. do guys want crazy drama? if someone pulled that shit on me i’d tell them to get fucked. he wasn’t doing anything wrong, it was his fucking bachelor party, he was well behaved and respectful and this chick was absolutely abusing him. i see it as totally deplorable behaviour yet so often i see really great guys putting up with it.
anyway my trip to LA was much fun, as always. i got really really sad leaving again this time, it took all my strength to not be that embarrassing idiot crying at LAX again lol. i really do love my life in melbourne and i’m a lot happier here than i was in adelaide but deep down LA still feels like home to me and it still really sucks that i couldn’t make the permanent move there work out. it’s hard only occasionally getting to see people i love so so much and be in a place where i feel so damn happy. but oh well, i’m grateful that i’m in a position where i can earn enough money to visit a few times a year! next trip (hopefully feb/march so we can all go over to mardi gras in new orleans) is DEFINITELY going to be longer though, a week was not enough time at all!
today on my flight from LA back to australia there was this elderly american couple sitting behind me and as we were descending into Sydney the lady had her face pressed up against the window and the man was over her shoulder saying excitedly “can you see any kangaroos?!” and it was kinda the cutest thing ever
Fuck that, it’s not a dichotomy. Let’s not act like mascara glues girls eyes so shut that they can’t read a word of Dickens or solve a trig problem. Let’s talk about how no boy has ever been asked if he’d rather get his Bachelor’s or get married; no boy has ever been told that he’s too handsome to run for office. So why cover up my tits so you can take me seriously?